Anonymously tell me your assumptions about me and I’ll confirm or deny them.

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Re-blog if you’re accepting anonymous asks from anyone about anything

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"Tips and Tricks"

If the movies scare me, walk out and sit with me.

If I can’t sleep, don’t stay up with me. It makes me feel worse for keeping you up too.

If I don’t want to touch people, back me up. Don’t make me fight the world off by myself.

If I need to hold your hand to feel safe, let me. Don’t make a big deal about it.

If you eat foods that trigger me, don’t encourage me to try them. Don’t make me explain in gross detail how it makes me feel before you’ll back off.

If I tell you no, listen to me. Even if it’s something tiny. Listen.

If I’m okay with something one day, and not the next, don’t point it out. I know I did the thing yesterday. I’m not dumb.

If I freak out over something, remember I’m still healing, and be patient. I will apologize and try to make it better when I stop panicking.

If I cancel plans to be alone in my room, don’t be mad at me. Whatever has made me need to stay in is definitely not something I would choose over time with you voluntarily.

If I cry, let me cry. Sometimes I need to. Don’t ask about it later. I’ll talk about it if I can or want to.

If I worry about you leaving me, don’t think you did anything wrong. You didn’t, I’m just paranoid. It happens.

If I get better, be proud of me. I am working very hard to be good.


Me

Just a short thing about how I work these days. 

(via vindictadulcae)


So, I have a boyfriend.

For the first time in 4 years.
And I couldn’t be happier. :)



just-relatable:

Relatable posts daily?

You will fall in love with her and I will go back to spending my Friday nights with all sorts of boys that can never seem to get my name right.
at least i know they’re going to leave (via slowwlife)

Serious question. Need serious answer asap.

Got gas on my hand. Forgot about it, went to chew my nail, instant taste of gas and possibly swallowed it. Has this happened to anyone else? Obviously at that point it was dry because I had spilt it about 45 minutes before.

Help?



Skipping one meal is not foundation,
faking a suicide attempt is not eyeshadow,
getting nervous and calling it anxiety is not eyeliner,
and being sad and calling it depression is not lipstick.
Mental illness is not makeup.
You cannot just put it on and take it off at will,
to make people look at you differently,
or treat you better.
And believe me,
if you could just put it on and take it off,
I’d be cleansing every last inch of my skin.

Pretending to Suffer isn’t Trendy (via fuckdansmith)

AyYYYYYY

(via queer-ed)

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A low opinion of yourself is not modesty; a low opinion of yourself is self-destruction.
Brenda Kent (via memoriesrecollected)

Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.
Maya Angelou (via larmoyante)

I find myself at 1am with thoughts that make my bones ache.
e.f.b. (via suspend)

(Source: somniloquencee)


Set the standard! Stop expecting others to show you love, acceptance, commitment, & respect when you don’t even show that to yourself.
― Steve Maraboli (via psych-quotes)

It’s so difficult to describe depression to someone who’s never been there, because it’s not sadness. I know sadness. Sadness is to cry and to feel. But it’s that cold absence of feeling— that really hollowed-out feeling.
J.K. Rowling (via kushandwizdom)

reblog if you wouldn’t mind some curious anons

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Things people with Social Anxiety do

high-energy-introvert:

•go to the bathroom to escape

•feel very uncomfortable without a phone or some other crutch

•dwell on a small awkward moment for much longer than necessary

•never go to any social event without a person that makes you feel comfortable

•follow said person way too much

•worry about the person beginning to find you obnoxious

•faking an illness to get out of a social event

•Dont buy something necessary because the cashier is intimidating.